If there are people who have had a harder life than yours, count every benefit as a blessing from above. Furthermore, count yourself a blessing to the people who are in trouble.
“Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it! Don’t forget about those in prison. Suffer with them as though you were there yourself. Share the sorrow of those being mistreated, as though you feel their pain in your own bodies.” (Hebrews 13:2-3)