Whenever you cave into the pressure to be judgmental and retaliatory you deny that God is just. You turn your back on the law of sowing and reaping.
You are saying that your assessment is superior to God’s.
Don’t speak evil against each other, my dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize each other and condemn each other, then you are criticizing and condemning God’s law. But you are not a judge who can decide whether the law is right or wrong. Your job is to obey it. God alone, who made the law, can rightly judge among us. He alone has the power to save or to destroy. So what right do you have to condemn your neighbor? James 4:11-12